Once you said hello to a girl and it can be difficult to know exactly what to say, but you can eliminate the guesswork with the 3 conversation catalysts. Basically here’s how it works. In your conversation you want to be thinking: “What question or topic does her last answer bring up.” One thing leads to another so let’s take a look at a few catalysts that spark more interesting, trust building conversation.
1) Encourage her to talk about herself. Be a good listener and let her do most of the talking. Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. Example: “So Emma, what do you love to do most?” “Tell me Emma what are you most passionate about?”
2) Get her saying, “yes, yes” immediately. Once you identify with something she likes, expand on it. For example:
M: What’s your most favorite music artist of all time?
W: I love anything Bob Marley
M: Don’t you just love that song “Is This Love” by Bob Marley?
W: Yes, yes and I also love Waiting In Vain.
3) Get an investment by throwing down a challenge. For Example:
M: What are you most passionate about?
W: I love to Salsa Dance
M: I don’t believe you, show me one cool move
Don’t skip out on throwing down a challenge as this is her “Identity Value” and represents an intense emotional response that results in deeper bonding. When you get this emotional response, her physiology will change and the value gets linked to you. Remember “circumstances” from sex appeal?
This is why men lose the second date; they don’t dig into her emotional Limbic Brain and leverage her emotions. Remember, you need to activate her checklist, her roadmap and give back her values and beliefs for life in her own language then she will bond deeply with you. For a detailed course on this check out the best selling “How To Get A Girlfriend – The Ultimate Guide” with contributions from over 2,000 girls.
