What Is The #1 Thing You Must Have To Get A Girl To Like You?
We can talk all day long about what us men thing women want, but only when you ask around and really understand from a girls perspective what they want does it become clear.
Personally I’ve polled over 2,000 women on Facebook and the majority (over 90%) say that the number one thing they like in a man is “Confidence.” Even in the media when Hollywood bombshells like Kate Upton, Jordan Rich, Mila Kunis, Eva Mendes, Rihanna and others were asked what they were attracted to most in a man, responded with high-testosterone traits like brute strength, confidence and good health made their hearts flutter. Men without these traits, they said, were weeded out.
According to testimonial from Athens Georgia Model Jordan Rich, when asked “how should a guy approach, she replied:
“He should make his way over to me and have a normal conversation with me. I like confidence. I don’t like pick-up lines and I don’t need him to think that he has to buy me a drink. That’s one of my biggest pet peeves.”
2013’s FHM Sexiest Woman Alive, Mila Kunis, said: “Men displaying assertiveness, & confidence were likely to win her heart.”
Sports Illustrated swimsuit model, Kate Upton, says she’s attracted to: “nice guys who are confident and attractive. Confidence is very important, who are you are and what you stand for… that’s really attractive to me. If you’re yourself and come up and are confident enough to talk to me it’s fine. If you’re not confident enough to come talk, obviously nothing’s gonna come of it because we’re not even going to meet.”
And pop singer, Rihanna, said: “Guys who are intimidated by her are a major turnoff. I can’t have guys intimidated by me. I like men that are more aggressive but mysterious but I like a man to be very sure. I like them to be sure of them selves and know that you’re the man. I’m the lady and the only way for us to make this work is for us to play our roles.”
Here’s why women are so attracted to confidence. Remember, according to the subconscious needs of the Reptilian Brain, women have an 
unconscious story playing in their head. They may say they want confident men, but what they really mean is that they subconsciously have the urge to mate with a dominant alpha male. This comes from thousands of years of evolution where women’s basic instinct was to mate with the strongest man, (the dominant alpha male) in order to give her offspring the best chance at survival.
Reptilian Attraction Automation
Ok so the reptilian brain is subconscious with a primary role of making sure you stay alive and spread your genes. It carries out a set of behavioral responses when presented with external triggers and if we know those triggers we’re in like Flynn (as long as we’ve aligned with clarity model).
Since it only understands images or body language and not verbal language, the first thing we need to focus in on is becoming more alpha dominant, which can be expressed through confidence.
What Makes You More Alpha Dominant?
Like a fireman or soldier who runs into danger and alpha is determined more by what you do in the presence of a challenge than your physical appearance. The same holds true for a woman and her attraction towards you. You will be tested at all stages of the relationship and if you rise to the challenge without being needy (that would be failure of a test) and pass each test, you will advance to the next step of the relationship. So the first step here is to develop your confidence, which will show up in your body language, your speech, your gait and your every day actions.
So how do we build more confidence? How do we become more alpha so women are automatically attracted to us? There are obviously many ways to build confidence and accordingly, there have been countless books and courses written on the subject. No doubt, it’s a subject far beyond any eBook or regular book for that matter.
Knowing how important confidence is and with the sole desire to help guys find their ultimate girlfriend, wife or partner, I created an entire course called the Triad of Unbreakable Confidence. I highly recommend you use the strategies in this book then kick it up a notch by visiting this page here: Triad Of Unbreakable Confidence to boost your confidence to Alpha Level.
