“Initially I was attracted because people knew him and it intrigued me” – Lauren
When most guys think about impressing a girl they think if only I was rich or famous, but many a man has fallen prey to this delusion.
The Illusion Of Fame Power & Money
So lets dispel the illusion of fame, power and money by being very clear as to their true nature, then we’ll see if they can serve us non-famous, non-wealthy people in getting the same trust from girls.
Fame, power and money are not happiness in and of themselves; they only create the illusion of happiness, which is instilled from birth through our conditioning by the media and a very greedy culture.
To prove this, all you need to do is open a magazine or turn on the television to see some famous, powerful or rich dude put on a pedestal with a $5,000 Armani suit and 3 hot models draped over his arms, as if he was to be worshiped like a god; regardless of whether or not he just got a divorce and lost half his fortune to a gold digger. Does the name Donald Trump ring a bell?
As mentioned earlier, the streets of Hollywood are littered with broken hearts and lost souls searching to fill the big hole in their life by jumping from relationship to relationship. The media portrays these people as happy, attractive, intelligent and successful, but in reality it’s an illusion as these people are rarely content or satisfied. This is primarily because their happiness is totally dependent on their popularity, what they look like and how much money they have in the bank. Only problem is, these things are constantly changing, so when the money runs out or old age creeps in or they’ve fallen out of fame, the happiness is… gone with it.
Ok so now we’ve shed some light on the illusion, but fame, power and wealth do automatically trigger attraction in most girls because they make them feel automatic trust. So how can we use this to our advantage and learn how to impress a girl without falling into the trap of fame, power and money?
Boost Your Passive Value
Fame is also considered passive value as it gives you value before you even meet someone. You don’t have to be a movie star or super athlete to build passive value. You can put yourself in the spotlight and build passive value doing things that hold you in your best light among your community. Here are some examples:
- Teach something she likes to learn.
- Practicing a hobby really well that she’s interested in and getting recognition from the community
- If you have a video of you doing something cool, like juggling or one of the interesting things you do post it on Facebook
- Have your friends pump you up before you meet someone by talking about you and your achievements, hobbies and character.
- Hold dinner parties regularly
- Start or get deeply involved in a charity
- Organize the annual motorbike rally
- Start a meetup.com group
Additionally, you can make a woman feel famous, rich and powerful with the other attraction strategies like your confidence, ambition, personality and sex appeal. If any of this sounds interesting we dive into this deep in Five Step Dating Formula and show you exactly how to separate yourself from 90% of most guys and land not just any girl, but the girl of your dreams. If you’d like some additional help check it out HERE.
