To find out how to get a girlfriend if you are ugly, you first need to understand that there is no such thing as ugly, its all in your head. If you’re not over 6 feet tall, tan, muscular and possess a
perfectly sculpted nose and jaw line, don’t worry, women are not like most men whose main qualifier is looks. Women are more interested in how you make them feel.
That being said, I can tell you first hand, girls are indeed attracted to “tall dark and handsome”‘ so here’s a huge tip that you’ll never get from some dating guru that never got any dates growing up.
As a handsome dude with a lot going for me, I’ve had women look or gawk at me all my life, but, and this is a big but, just being handsome NEVER led to me attracting my ideal match. Similarly, “Famous” or “Wealthy” are two other instant attractors for most girls, but again they almost NEVER lead to an ideal match.
Just think about all the celebrity break ups… Brad Pit and Jennifer Aniston, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Heidi Klum and Seal, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren and the list goes on and on. If these people were so happy and attractive why do they go through breakup after breakup and experience so much pain?
“Come to think of it, my last three relationships all started with intense attraction, lots of sex, but within 6 months they were over and ended badly.” – Beth
Why don’t handsome, wealthy or famous guarantee relationship success? While these all build immense and instant attraction…
“Attraction” is a poor indicator of compatibility!
The problem here comes right back to values and beliefs. Being famous, good looking or wealthy will always be overridden and negated if you have two totally different belief systems. Girls are more interested in how you make them feel. What’s most important to understand here is the “FEELING” from handsome and famous can be duplicated by other means
Practice What You Can’t Do
Something I heard a long time ago by the millionaire Solon products magnate Paul Mitchell really resonated with me. It went something like this: “Work to be good at the things you ARE NOT GOOD AT and you’ll get whatever you want.” This is what maximizes capacity and separates Tiger Woods from all the other pro golfers, Michael Jordan from all the other basketball players and what will make you a master at attracting, interacting and finding that ideal match.
So think about this: When it comes to girls, what are you bad at that you avoid, because it’s TOO Difficult? Probably approaching girls, or speaking to them I’d imagine. Well, if you’d like to expand your capacity so you don’t think twice about approaching or speaking to a woman, you’ll need to make a commitment to yourself to actually apply these strategies I teach as they will only help you if you if you take action and get good at them.
Some of it is simple and will change the reaction you get from women overnight and some may take a few years of practice. Regardless of how long it takes to get good, make a commitment that from here on out you simply won’t give up practicing until you get the result you want… your ideal match. For a full course on this, check out this Amazon Best Seller I wrote on How To Get A Girlfriend
To your success, Chad