“Proximity is power!” – Anthony Robbins
Offline Encounters
If you want to meet a specific type of woman, you need to be “in the proximity of” (near) the places these gals would normally hang out. For example: If you’re into yoga like me you’ll be at the yoga studio or at yoga events. These are loaded with hot girls who are grounded and love to exercise.
First, go back to your values at the beginning of this book and determine where girls who have similar values and interests would go. Then use the following ideas to meet girls that apply to you.
Again, keep in mind that some of these places will be totally foreign to you and completely opposed to your personal values. If this is the case, then keep looking for areas that you think you could expand into that might actually be good for your health or wealth or spirituality or that might fit with your current values and interests.
If you’re intentions are shady, girls will see right through you and reject you. For example: If you go to a yoga class and you don’t have any interest in really advancing your health but instead you find yourself looking up all the time to see if you can find a hairy beaver and you’re just looking to get laid, girls will see right through you. Your interest must be genuine and real. With that in mind here is a short list of great places to meet women:
• Yoga Class
• Dance Class
• Salon or Spas
• Co-ed adult sports league
• Private Parties
• Bars & Clubs
• Meetup.com (join groups that fit your values and interests)
Online Dating Sites
Online dating is hands down the easiest way to meet women and doesn’t require wasting a ton of time trolling for ladies at the local bars and coming home empty handed. Statistics from Reuters, Herald News, PC World and the Washington Post show that 76% of all single people in the US alone have opened an online dating profile and it’s now socially accepted as “Normal.” Even beyond the United States, most developed countries like Europe, Canada and Australia now closely mimic this percentage.
If you’re still not convinced online dating is a gold mine, here’s a mind-blowing statistic. Did you know that 50% more women are online dating than men? I don’t know about you, but I prefer these odds to the local bar or club scene, which is 50% more dudes than ladies.
If you want the odds stacked in your favor, online dating is loaded with girls looking for guys. For example, there are 6 girls for every 4 guys on Match.com. If we use our statistics above we find there are roughly 72 million women in the US alone who are online looking for dates from a pool of only 37 million guys. Can your odds get any better?
There are free and paid sites, but the paid sites are typically the best for serious relationships because serious people pay money. As a rule of thumb anything you have to pay for will have more organization, trust and real customers. Free sites on the other hand attract a lot of cheap, deal chasers and people with low standards.
When picking an online site just make sure you pick a big one, otherwise the selection will be too small to find anyone decent. The largest recommended paid sites which has the best coverage is www.Match.com – or www.eHarmony.com and the most recommended free sites are www.Tinder.com and www.POF.com.
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