I often get questions about what are the best dating tips for women and I frequently reply with… there are none! Women are shocked when they hear this because they 
think dating it’s such a simple frivolous task, like going to 7-Eleven and getting the best tampon. But this is why the divorce rate is almost 50% in the United States of America. Basically, most people just take whatever shows up.
For instance, you go to bar or club or the beach and some guy just shows up in your environment and he may know a friend of yours and since he has a little bit of rapport with your friend you have a little more trust and let him into your life. But more importantly, you really attracted to him, you have chemistry and you date for a few weeks, you start having sex and the chemistry is really great. But over time, you slowly start to notice there isn’t much else beyond the chemistry. Or he may just have some major anger issues or really be immature and incapable of expressing himself.
While these are not deal breakers in and of themselves, they can certainly get out of hand and kill the relationship if not handled. If for instance you had a relationship in the past with someone who did not deal with their childhood issues of being abandoned by their father and really wanted to be approved by everyone and had little self-love then you might want to write this down and ask a few questions to a potential partner before you get hooked on the chemicals of infatuation and sex.
The point is, if you are aware of your deal breakers up front then you won’t get sucked into a relationship that’s going nowhere. Instead, You’ll be activating your reticular activating system, which allows you to focus in and attracting the right person.
It’s like when you buy a brand-new car and you think it’s pretty original. But shortly after you buy it you start to notice there are hundreds of people who own your same car. You didn’t notice this before you bought the car, but once you bought it, your reticular activating system simply brought them to the front of your mind.
Dating the right person is very similar. You write down what your deal breakers are ahead of time and you also write down what you really want from a guy, then your mind begins to focus on finding that in your environment.
Of course, I talk about all of this in detail in my book Online Dating For Women The Quick Notes With Game Changer Quick Tips. If you’re serious about finding the right one, do yourself a favor and investigate a little further so you become one of the few who actually gets the guy who goes the distance and supports you for the rest of your life.
