“I like a guy who pays attention to the little things, like matching his belt to his shoes or his jacket to his hat. It says he’s different and unique.” – Debbie
The third component to sex appeal is self-presentation, which includes things like grooming, hairstyle, fashion, etc. If you’re interested in attractive girls, keep in mind that they pay attention to the finer details and a few simple modifications may not only make you more attractive, but also make up for some of the things that are killing your chances.
So for instance, if you are not six feet tall, but you dress well and take care of your hygiene, you can make up for lack of height (only if tall is one of her criteria).
Clothes – Don’t dress generically and blend into the background. If your clothes are so generic you never get compliments, you need a change. Make sure you wear some fashionable clothes when you first meet her. It’s important to realize that no matter what some magazine article says or some new report says or what movie you see, girls are different. Some like men in suits, some like men in surf trunks and everything in between.
What you wear will depend on your community and culture. For instance, if you’re in the finance world and its normal to wear a suit and tie, she will probably love you in a suit if you go out for drinks after work. In contrast, if you’re in the yoga and surf community, you could show up in jeans or trunks. Now if you take her out and its clearly not school or work time, there are some go to threads that will almost always work, here’s a general guideline.
Pants – A Harper’s Bazaar study showed that jeans (specifically: Levi’s slightly washed out 514’s) invoked the biggest feelings of carnal lust in women. As far as how they should fit, shoot for not too baggy and not too tight. But of course, this is going to vary across cultures, cities and current trends.
Rolling up pants is a big trend right now and something you may want to do, but just like all other fads, it will fall out of style. I personally have had favorable comments from women about “True Religion” jeans and “Lucky” brand, which a little more pricey, but they will last a long time and make you look attractive to any woman.
Shirt – As for your shirt, you can drive any woman crazy by wearing something tight on the biceps, but not around the midriff, that shows your arms (hopefully with defined triceps and biceps). This could be a plain white t-shirt or a tight fit short sleeve upscale shirt from Armani depending on your style. The University of Texas at San Antonio found a top with this fit is the sexiest thing you can wear. And buy deep blue: in a separate study, 85% of women rated this the most attractive color.
Shoes – This again is going to depend on where you live and what community you’re in. City folks will tend to go for more formal wear like brogues with rolled up pants, while Desert boots and fashionable sneakers are less formal than brogues, making you appear softer and more approachable.
As a side note, if you can, match the color of your shoes to your belt, it will score huge points with her. A study by the University of Arizona found that attention to detail with subtle cues like this marks you out as a better potential mate.
Jacket – If its winter or cooler weather, wear or buy a jacket that’s fitted around the shoulder and cut at the waist; try not to wear anything too long like a trench coat. Research from Chicago University revealed that a leather jacket with good wear is the single most appealing piece of clothing you can gear up in.
Check out the following Recommended Apps Below or the most popular magazines like Maxim, Men’s Health or GQ and see what the current trends are.
GILT – One of the best websites for designer clothing flash sales, the Gilt app lets you access amazing deals on shoes, clothing, outerwear, and accessories. The men’s section typically features fashion powerhouses like Gucci, Puma, Prada, and more. Get the iPhone App HERE. Get the Android app HERE
ShopStyle – iPhone shoppers swear by ShopStyle’s app that makes shopping on your phone as easy as it gets. ShopStyle pulls in the latest fashions from hundreds of retailers like Nordstrom and Burberry that customers can then curate by price, color, size, and style to find exactly what they’re looking for. Get the iPhone App HERE. Get the Android app HERE
If you can’t afford these threads, look for sales. Don’t go wear something that isn’t you. If jeans and a t-shirt are you, rock it. Most girls love this basic, but clean look. But keep in mind; women have all kinds of opinions as to what looks good. The most important thing here is to be yourself, but always think about how you can step up a notch.
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