Ever find yourself in the presence of a beautiful girl and all of a sudden it feels like your tongue is locked in concrete? Like you’ve just been hypnotized and lost all your power? This isn’t uncommon so know that you’re not alone. Most guys suffer from this same dilemma. The question, of course, is how the hell do you loosen up and win her over?
One of the many ways described in the book “How to Get A Girlfriend – The Ultimate Guide” by Chad Scott Nellis, is to simply start moving your body and get the feel-good chemicals flowing. This is one of the quickest ways for your brain to start working its magic.
“Emotion Comes From Motion” – Tony Robbins
Every feeling we have emotionally in the body has a corresponding posture, breath, and physiology. Your energy is the first thing she’ll pick up on when you first see her so it’s important to get your body language right here.
“When I’m at a party and a guy walks in and everybody notices, it’s usually because he’s really confident and acts like a rock star even if he isn’t one. – Monique”
Rock Star Entry – Think about Elvis Presley, for a moment. Out of all the rock stars, he used body language to make girls scream and lose control more than anyone else. Or how about a guy like Justin Beiber, even if you can’t stand him, girls scream for him to take his pants off? So what can we learn from Elvis Presley or Justin Bieber, even if we are NOT rich and famous?
Set The Frame And Win The Game
When you enter a party, event, club, bar or even a first date you need to set the frame. In other words, what is the bigger picture? A great case study of this is my own experience. As a singer-songwriter, I learned that being up on stage is a frame I could use not just when on stage, but when I walked into any place I wanted to meet a woman.
Now I would take that stage presence into just about any bar, club, restaurant, event or date and I would be like a magnet for not only women but people in general. I would literally have strangers who have never seen me before come up to me and ask me if I was famous. But outside of my small following of fans around the world, most people have no idea who I am.
Since you may not have any reference to what it means to stand on stage with everyone watching you, take some time before you go out to meet girls and watch a commanding performer like Elvis or Frank Sinatra or some more contemporary guys like Bruno Mars or Sting, then close your eyes and imagine you are your favorite rock star walking into an establishment.
Now lift your arms over your head like the crowd is cheering you on. If it doesn’t feel natural just fake it until it does. Surprisingly, lifting your arms over your head instantly raises testosterone by 20 % and women are instinctively attracted to men with high testosterone. It’s not a choice, their primitive brain is built to be attracted to guys with high testosterone because unconsciously they think it gives their offspring a higher chance of survival.
Try boosting your testosterone before you’re going out to meet girls and keep in mind, working out builds testosterone levels, which have been scientifically proven to attract women automatically. They can actually sense a man with high testosterone levels and unconsciously will be drawn to mate with him because at a primal level they believe men with high testosterone levels can produce healthy children and protect them.
But that’s not it, testosterone also works to burn fat and build muscle, increase sex drive, boost your boners, strengthen your bones, heart, and blood while boosting your mood. To learn more about this I recommend the 31 Day Testosterone Plan, which will get your flagpole to rise and boost those hormones to the point where girls can sniff you out a mile away.
To find out more ways to approach and win any girl over check out “How to Get A Girlfriend – The Ultimate Guide”
