Have you ever met a girl or just started dating and just being around them makes you feel weak in the knees or you can’t stop 
thinking about her or you uncontrollably smile whenever you think about her. But why does this happen, why do men get hypnotized by women?
Its called Chemistry and if you want to know how to get a girl to like you, you’ll need to figure out how to get it or there’s no initial spark to get to the next stage.
The BIG MISTAKE guys make = NO CHEMISTRY
But what is chemistry and can we get more of it if we don’t have it, OR can having it just make us blind and powerless as we free fall into a trap wasting years of our lives with the wrong person?
Well, let’s look at the definition of chemistry for a clue…
“Chemistry can be described as the combination of love, lust, infatuation, and a desire to be involved intimately with someone. It contains the components of non-judgment, similarity, mystery, attraction, mutual trust, and effortless communication.”
Now lets key in on “Attraction” as it’s the most well understood component of chemistry and our first clue into unlocking our mystery.
Question: Attraction… is it static or active? In other words, can you make yourself more attractive or are you stuck with what you got?
Right, you can increase your attractiveness. Now this is really important here because if you’ve ever failed to attract a woman or got rejected, which is all of us, by kicking it up a notch in any of these areas of attraction (especially the most important ones) you can make up for a shortfall somewhere else.
Its also important to remember that women are hard wired to be attracted to these 10 factors regardless of what you look like, so pay close attention to where you might fall short and where you can improve.
Here are The 10 PRIMARY ATTRACTION FACTORS.
- Fame
- Power / Status
- Sex Appeal
- Self Confidence / Ambition
- Security / Money
- Desirable Personality
- Intelligence
- Chivalry
- Charm / Romance
- Favorable towards children
While some of these like fame, power and exclusivity may be out of your control, the other 8 are all on the table and if improved upon, can make up for any shortfall.
Question: What is the #1 most important of the attraction factors?
To answer this we first need to get one thing clear, when it comes to attraction…
Women think differently than men! Men are more concerned about youth, beauty and sex, while women are more concerned with a much broader range of the attraction factors including, sex appeal, security, personality, confidence, etc. Of course these depend on whether or not she’s looking for a short or long term relationship.
But what about money?
Ok I know, money is really controversial here so lets get clear on what you need to know. In attraction factor #5 security / money is a double-edged sword. Yes having money will help her feel that you can bring security to her life and is necessary to a certain degree if you want a long-term relationship, but in the beginning of a relationship it’s important NOT to buy everything and woo her with money. This communicates: “Sorry this is all I have to offer” and sets you up as the provider not the lover. Now once you get into a relationship, money becomes a whole different issue, more on that later. For now you need to hook her and to do that you’ll need to use your best bait.
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