If you’re attempting to write a profile for yourself online there are some key items that can make or break your chances. Similar to any other situation where you want something from someone
else like a new job, a new client, a new donor, you’ll need to address the main question the other person is asking: or “what you have to offer” and “what’s in it for me”. Pay attention, as we’ll be applying this to the rest of your profile.
Most people are challenged when it comes to describing themselves. This comes from false beliefs about us being unworthy of great words and is typically accumulated throughout our lives from our friends, family and the media.
This is major challenge and is addressed in “The Triad Of Unbreakable Confidence”, but for now you’ll need to cast aside all self-doubt and brag a little about yourself.
Start thinking about what you have to offer. Here are some examples:
- I love to exercise because it makes me feel alive
- I love to cook because it makes takes away all my stress and I get the joy of making others really happy
- I like to play guitar because it’s meditative and relaxes me
- People tell me I’m great with my hands
- I like to read a lot because it expands my imagination
Now look at your list, if you haven’t already addressed things that are important to them, you’ll need to add at least 3 more that address her “what’s in it for me” needs. Here are some examples:
- I’m a leader at my local community center and it feels great to help others and watch their lives improve. (All women love confident guys who give back)
- I love to workout as it makes me feel alive (most people are attracted to people who take care of themselves)
- I love kids because they bring joy and simplicity (if they have or want kids this is huge)
- I’m down to earth and can be comfortable in most circumstances (you’re not high maintenance)
- I’m very affectionate and could cuddle in a warm blanket with a movie at least once a week (people who can touch and show care are desirable)
- Candles and wine really take dinner to a new dimension and I’m a connoisseur of details. (women love romance and details)
- I’m the kind of guy/gal you can take home to your parents (shows stability)
By providing these answers in your profile, your potential match will more likely reach out or be more acceptable to your approach. But what if they aren’t compatible? To filter out the incompatible matches without having to waste hours looking at emails, you’ll need to add some qualifiers into your profile. For more internet dating tips on this check out the “Quick Guides” Below:
Click Here for: Online Dating for Women – The Quick Notes (With Game Changer Quick Tips)
Click Here for: Online Dating for Men – The Quick Notes (With Game Changer Quick Tips)
