Ladies, if you’re looking to curry favor with a man or he shuts down on you and can’t communicate, there are 4 magic words you can say that will make a man’s heart skip a beat and fall in love with you quicker than just about any other. No it’s not “I love you” that’s 3 words, and this is way more powerful; so listen up as this is a game changer for not only creating a healthy relationship but becoming a great person.
“You Can Do It.”
These words have immense power due to the fact that men have to face a lot of rejection and failure. It’s also based on a mans need for “positive words of reaffirmation,” but may or may not relate to “The Five Love Languages.”
For example, in the realm of dating and relationships, if you’re a woman you most likely get 
chased and the man has to chase, which means he fails way more than you. Because men have to fail a lot when you give him positive reinforcement and tell him you believe in him and he can do it, whatever it is he’s trying to do, it’s like winning the super lotto. And here’s the bonus, the more you can encourage him the more he’ll trust you and open his heart during those times where you just wish he would say something.
A man doesn’t need a bunch of things or winning the lottery. What he does need is the confidence and encouragement that he can make his dreams a reality, at which point he will be happy regardless of his circumstances and trouble will bounce off him like rubber balls (no pun intended).
And the double bonus… People who can encourage others are generally unselfish and considered much more desirable partners.
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